Over recent years, the term “consent” has proven to confuse people. Now, not everyone is puzzled by this simple word, defined in the Merriam-Webster as: “(n:) compliance in or approval of what is done or proposed by another”. But, enough of the world’s population is so mystified by this word and corresponding meaning that it frequently finds its way into social media spheres, courtrooms, and even mass protests organized by thousands of women- begging people to try to understand this simple concept. In the past month, #ThisIsNotConsent arose on multiple social media platforms, usually accompanying images of underwear, to show support for a young woman who took her own life after being forced to hold up the underwear she was wearing the night of her rape during trial in Ireland. Most of these hashtags show support of the woman in the case, while some opposing views clarify the practice of using underwear as evidence in defence of an accused rapist. Though these sides are not directly opposing, it shows that some people are looking at this as an issue with the law, and others are viewing it as an issue of culture and society.
#ThisIsNotConsent No Means No pic.twitter.com/BGEjKzHRfI
— Miriam 🥀 (@Bbygmiriam) November 24, 2018
This is NOT consent.
A 17 year old girls thong was held up in court this week as evidence. I am disgusted. Rape happened before mini skirts and rape happened before thongs.
How devastating, underwear is not consent. #ThisIsNotConsent pic.twitter.com/qPwpIhU81A
— Serena Ramsey (@SerenaActor123) November 18, 2018
RIP to the 17 year old girl, who took her own life after having to hold up her underwear,three times, in a court case to show that she gave consent to her rapist because she was wearing a thong. This is sad and disgusting. God bless her family and friends. #ThisIsNotConsent
— taylinphippss (@taylinphippss2) November 23, 2018
Whatever we wear, Wherever we go, Yes means Yes and No means No.#ThisIsNotConsent pic.twitter.com/LRZ5AEiz7m
— sadie winter (@_sadiiee) November 21, 2018
#NorthernIreland: Preliminary recommendations from #Gillen review of complainants' treatment in rape proceedings. Great to see #RapeMyths and legal representation for survivors mentioned. #LetsTalkAboutYes #ThisIsNotConsent #TimesUp #MeToo https://t.co/dqvHcMQayd
— Anna Blus (@AnnaMBlus) November 20, 2018
Sir John Gillen's review of the administration of justice in Northern Ireland rape and sexual assault cases reflects briefly (part 1, p. 114) on whether asking complainants to display their underwear (as in #ThisIsNotConsent case) is inhuman or degrading treatment or punishment. pic.twitter.com/nRjiDLxTrd
— Irish Legal News (@IrishLegalNews) November 20, 2018