The Imperative of Consent #YesMeansYes

Posted on by Rebekah Boulos

Young people are speaking out about what it means to give consent, with the movement #YesMeansYes that focuses on positive consent from all parties engaging in sexual activity before the activity occurs.  #YesMeansYes has sparked a conversation about what consent should look like, and who can give consent.  #YesMeansYes says a clear, not coerced, enthusiastic, and verbal “yes” given by sober parties is imperative.

The movement centers around educating young people about consent, and fostering a sex positive environment that makes everyone feel comfortable and safe when engaging in sexual activity.  The movement promotes respecting sexual partners and establishing clear boundaries prior to sexual activity to avoid situations that could lead to sexual assault or rape.

 

#YesMeansYes is working to break down stereotypes and common misconceptions about sexual assault, because victims are often blamed for the crimes committed against them and made to feel as if it were somehow their fault.  Thankfully, #YesMeansYes is empowering victims of sexual assault and making it clear that it is never their fault.

 

However some people are continuing to shame victims of sexual assault on twitter and accuse them of making poor choices.

Opponents of the movement are attacking it, saying it’s a way for victims of sexual assault, particularly women, to falsely accuse men of rape.  However, it’s only empowering people to take control of their sexuality.  Hopefully, as we continue to have conversations about affirmative consent, it will become clear that consent is always needed.

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